Showing posts with label valentine. Show all posts
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Wednesday, February 13, 2019

A Kiss To Erase Sadness And Loneliness



A kiss can have uncountable meanings and definitions. A kiss to a mother can define the feeling of love and care. A kiss to a fried can symbolize the emotion of love and togetherness. A kiss to a father can express your confidence in him. A kiss to a patient can symbolize the feeling that you will be cured soon. Every kiss can have a different meaning and feelings.

When I was in school I was a regular subscriber of “Readers Digest”, my elder sister made a habit of sending me yearly subscriptions as my birthday gift every year. I read a very touching story in one of the editions long back. It was a real story by a nurse. The name of the story was “Kiss For Kate”.



A Kiss For Kate

This story was about a old couple in hospital. In some foreign countries they have double rooms for old age patients in few hospitals. Here they have facilities that if one of the person is admitted than the spouse is allowed to stay with him/her to accompany each other. This was a very old couple in the hospital, where the wife was admitted with severe medical problems. The husband also opted to stay with her in the room. The hospital authorities arranged for the attendant’s bed.  

This nurse, who was the author of the story, was appointed to take care of the couple during her duty hours. She was very touched by the couple’s gestures for each other. They both took care of each other a lot. They would talk, play chess and spent quality time with each other. But, one thing which was very beautiful was that the husband kissed his wife Kate every night. And it was only after that she would sleep.

One day, Kate was very serious and she found that the husband was getting very nervous and sad. Suddenly, he got a heart attack and he died. The hospital staff was very worried about his wife as she was not in senses but, then she was not sleeping since the day her husband died.

After trying hard for three days, I realized that she was missing the kiss. I entered the room, caressed her forehead and kissed on just the way she was kissed every night. I could feel tears rolling down her cheeks. She whispered, “Where were you till now? I was afraid”. I just patted her cheeks and left the room.

Even today, when more than 30 years have passed I couldn’t forget this story. I learned the value of touch that day. A touch can have several meanings. Sometimes “a kiss is a medicine”, to cure sadness and loneliness.

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Tuesday, February 12, 2019

Those Ancient Hug-Day Stories



These Hug-Day, Kiss-Day, ProposeDay are not new to our Indian cultural heritage. These days are prevalent in our history since ages. Though their names are different but, their impacts are more powerful and strong as compared to these western culture festivals. Our Indian culture is very rich in festivals with reasons to highlight humanity and togetherness.

·      Holi

Holi is a festival of colors and love. Our festival Holi teaches us the value of relations and bonding. On this day, people hug each other and apply colors on their faces. These colors reflect life and happiness.

·      Eid

Eid is our festival, which teaches us to hug and cherish togetherness.

·      Diwali

Diwali also is a festival of light and happiness. People meet and wish each other for happiness and prosperity.

·      Makar Sankranti

Makar sankranti comes in January. On this day, ladies meet each other and bless for long life and prosperity.

·      Dussehra

Dussehra teaches us the value of truth and loyalty. People hug each other on this day.

Our Festivals teach us the value of closeness and togetherness. So, our Indian culture is richer with these festivals and celebrations.

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Monday, February 11, 2019

Will You Be My Valentine?



Will you be my Valentine? These dialogues are very common during Valentine week. Several boys and girls encounter new Romeo’s during these days. I just remember few decades back, there were no valentine celebrations. It all started with the introduction of internet to common man. People saw these valentine day celebrations in Rome and other countries by the Catholics. Then these unemployed and free people around the country planned to start the same game here in India.

The History

I still remember, when I was in school, Valentine Day was celebrated in church with prayers and chorus singing for Saint Valentine. But, today the scene is very different; today’s youth is crazy celebrating love towards their “Special Friend”. They are buying expensive gifts for them, posting photos online and what not.

The Fashion Trending Behind Valentine’s Day

These couples want the whole world to know that they are in love and someone is crazy after them. They want to spend full live with each other. But, is life a “Bed Of Roses”, with great freedom of expression comes a great responsibility also.  A responsibility to accept each other the way you are, to love and respect each other and of course to give space to each other. These young children from business class families are so desperate to show off themselves to others that they forget this second side of the coin. There no coin with a single face, with freedom comes the bondage, with rights comes the duties.

Moral Science

Sometimes, I feel like adding a new subject in all school syllabuses. Though, it’s not a new subject. I still remember that “Moral Science” was one of the main stream subjects in convent schools; children need to study hard these books with stories on The Bible with moral values and pass the subject to enter the new class. Today, it should be mandatory in all government, public and private schools to educate moral values in the children.

The Bottom Line

I would be very thankful to the reader, if they start educating their children these moral values from today. This will not only bring a better tomorrow but also reduce these vulgar valentine proposals and cheap commenting, eve teasing type of behaviors in the youth.


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Sunday, February 10, 2019

“A Letter To Valentine Couples”



Dear Valentine couples,

I am so happy to see you all so deeply in love with each other and spending time on this relationship. I am very touched top see your gestures on Facebook, Tweeter and Instagram. Sometimes, I feel that I should have born in this era of westernization, freedom of expression and liberal mindsets. Today, the whole generation is very liberal and open-minded. Boys and girls are enjoyed freedom to the extent of line-in relationships. They don’t want any commitment of marriage and family.


The Irony

But the irony is that you don’t want any commitment of marriage, family and children and believe in live-in relationships and encourage this kind of lifestyles. But, you want a genuine PROMISE on Promise Day and a true commitment on Valentine’s Day.

Why this Dilemma? Why can’t you stick to one choice? Why you want a commitment in short run and No Commitment in long run?
This is because you want to lead a relaxed life without any responsibility and commitments towards anyone.  You want to run away from your liabilities towards your parents, family, society and country. A country’s true wealth is known by its population’s family bonding and happiness ratio. So, here I am you guys believe in posting national flags, videos on Republic Day and Independence day to boost off your “Love for Nation” to your facebook friends and followers. But, in reality, this is not the real “You”.

The Real “You” is a coward, who don’t wants to take any responsibilities and always want to lead a life only for himself/ herself. The real “You” is a selfish person who wants to spend his salary to buy happiness only for himself, not for parents, family spouse or children.

The Bottom Line

In the end, I would like you all to know that we as parents and society are updated with your mindsets. We know how sincere you are towards your Valentine? And we also know how long you will entertain each other as Valentine’s?  So, it’s good that you don’t tie wedlock with your Valentine, because our nation and society cannot set such examples of immediate divorces and broken marriages. Today, when more than 40% of marriages are broken in the first year of marriage, we can understand that you are still not matured enough to bear the responsibilities of family, society and nation.

I just have a small message for you my dear.

“Wake up its Dawn”

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