Showing posts with label promise day. Show all posts
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Monday, February 11, 2019

Will You Be My Valentine?



Will you be my Valentine? These dialogues are very common during Valentine week. Several boys and girls encounter new Romeo’s during these days. I just remember few decades back, there were no valentine celebrations. It all started with the introduction of internet to common man. People saw these valentine day celebrations in Rome and other countries by the Catholics. Then these unemployed and free people around the country planned to start the same game here in India.

The History

I still remember, when I was in school, Valentine Day was celebrated in church with prayers and chorus singing for Saint Valentine. But, today the scene is very different; today’s youth is crazy celebrating love towards their “Special Friend”. They are buying expensive gifts for them, posting photos online and what not.

The Fashion Trending Behind Valentine’s Day

These couples want the whole world to know that they are in love and someone is crazy after them. They want to spend full live with each other. But, is life a “Bed Of Roses”, with great freedom of expression comes a great responsibility also.  A responsibility to accept each other the way you are, to love and respect each other and of course to give space to each other. These young children from business class families are so desperate to show off themselves to others that they forget this second side of the coin. There no coin with a single face, with freedom comes the bondage, with rights comes the duties.

Moral Science

Sometimes, I feel like adding a new subject in all school syllabuses. Though, it’s not a new subject. I still remember that “Moral Science” was one of the main stream subjects in convent schools; children need to study hard these books with stories on The Bible with moral values and pass the subject to enter the new class. Today, it should be mandatory in all government, public and private schools to educate moral values in the children.

The Bottom Line

I would be very thankful to the reader, if they start educating their children these moral values from today. This will not only bring a better tomorrow but also reduce these vulgar valentine proposals and cheap commenting, eve teasing type of behaviors in the youth.


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Sunday, February 10, 2019

“A Letter To Valentine Couples”



Dear Valentine couples,

I am so happy to see you all so deeply in love with each other and spending time on this relationship. I am very touched top see your gestures on Facebook, Tweeter and Instagram. Sometimes, I feel that I should have born in this era of westernization, freedom of expression and liberal mindsets. Today, the whole generation is very liberal and open-minded. Boys and girls are enjoyed freedom to the extent of line-in relationships. They don’t want any commitment of marriage and family.


The Irony

But the irony is that you don’t want any commitment of marriage, family and children and believe in live-in relationships and encourage this kind of lifestyles. But, you want a genuine PROMISE on Promise Day and a true commitment on Valentine’s Day.

Why this Dilemma? Why can’t you stick to one choice? Why you want a commitment in short run and No Commitment in long run?
This is because you want to lead a relaxed life without any responsibility and commitments towards anyone.  You want to run away from your liabilities towards your parents, family, society and country. A country’s true wealth is known by its population’s family bonding and happiness ratio. So, here I am you guys believe in posting national flags, videos on Republic Day and Independence day to boost off your “Love for Nation” to your facebook friends and followers. But, in reality, this is not the real “You”.

The Real “You” is a coward, who don’t wants to take any responsibilities and always want to lead a life only for himself/ herself. The real “You” is a selfish person who wants to spend his salary to buy happiness only for himself, not for parents, family spouse or children.

The Bottom Line

In the end, I would like you all to know that we as parents and society are updated with your mindsets. We know how sincere you are towards your Valentine? And we also know how long you will entertain each other as Valentine’s?  So, it’s good that you don’t tie wedlock with your Valentine, because our nation and society cannot set such examples of immediate divorces and broken marriages. Today, when more than 40% of marriages are broken in the first year of marriage, we can understand that you are still not matured enough to bear the responsibilities of family, society and nation.

I just have a small message for you my dear.

“Wake up its Dawn”

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