Today our women is flying jet, fighting on borders, treating
patients, teaching children in schools and colleges and doing what not. She has
over-passed men also in doing variant tasks. She takes care and feeds the
family when at home, she works like a professional when at office and nurses
her parents and takes care of them when with them. She is doing multiple tasks
throughout the day and trying to prove herself.
She is not only earning, nursing, feeding or driving but also
spending quality time with her children to pick up and drop at school and tutions.
She is not forgetting to check their lunch boxes weather they have had their
meals or not. Everyone in the family is dependent on her for big or small
needs. Be it mother or children, be it father or son or anyone else.
The Dying Womanhood
But I feel that the woman inside her is losing her womanhood
in these multitasking schedules. I can see that the young girl inside that
strong woman is dying and suffocating. She hardly gets time to look herself in
the mirror and appreciate those curls falling on her cheeks or those sweeping
eyelashes touching her brows. I really want you to revive this womanhood on
this women’s day 2019 before she dies completely.
Today, women are stressed since childhood. This stress is oif
studies, peer pressure, appearance and so on. These stress levels hurdle her emotional
growth. In olden days, the children used to be carefree and they had no stress till
adolescence. This resulted in better physical and mental growth. These children
performed good in whatever field they opted.
But, today even small girls are suffering from PCOD and other
hormonal disorders. These all are results of increased stress and hectic
lifestyles. Today, parents want their child to be active in all fields like
singing, sports, studies, general knowledge and so on. This increased
expectations are resulting in continuous classes and activities, the child
hardly gets any time to rest and relax.
The Remedy
The only remedy to
cure this dying womanhood is to let your daughter play and decide her own
choice of profession and hobbies. Let her grow with time instead of you forcing
your decisions on her.
Our government should promote working-hours policies for the
young mothers so that they could spend more time with their children. This will
not only reduce her physical and emotional stress but also enhance “HappyFamilies” in our country.
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